How many times did you hear while growing up, “You create your own reality.” And you thought, “Yea right! I was born into this,or that happened to me and that wasn’t MY choice!” Or something similar went through your mind? Well your response to something IS always your choice. Many times either choice you make may not seem an awesome choice, but do you really know that? By making choice A, you might end up meeting someone, who knows someone, who introduces you to the love of your life who happens to be a millionaire or someone who offers you that dream job!
My point here is that every moment of your life is an awesome moment to make a choice. You can complain and not do anything; though that is a choice in itself. Or you can decide to be conscious and make a choice. If you do “nothing” because that is a conscious choice then you are still choosing but this time it is with awareness rather than blaming others for your circumstances. When you wake up in the morning, you have choices. Do you greet the moment with gratitude and love OR do you open your eyes and say to yourself (or out loud) ‘Damn, another day!’ At that moment that you wake up the choice of HOW to think is totally up to you! Really. In reality, every moment is totally up to YOU how you choose to respond.
Starting with being grateful every day for another day of your life is a good way to start. You can continue to blame others for life circumstances or you can take control. Which do you prefer: Continuing to live by the chooses others think are best for you OR choosing what makes you happy and consequently makes everyone around you happy (who wants to be around a grump?) and therefore makes the world a better place?
If you got angry while reading this short blog, then you have not yet taken control of your life. I suggest you bookmark this page and come back when you are tired of blaming others for your situation. In the meantime, share with others and follow this blog ifyou aren’t already. And if you need that private chat session, check out my life coaching sessions and coursework here. Hope you all have an awesome day!
All Right Reserved Vallee Rose 2016