I am sure that you have all heard the saying that “Life is like an onion”. When you begin the search to discover why you do the things you do, you quickly realize that there are layers on top of layers, just like an onion. You probably cry at times like you are peeling an onion as well. So why so many layers? And will you ever get to the core? The answer to why the layers is that you have learned things on top of other things. For example: at age 2, you may have learned that love is not always unconditional and you stored that away in one part of your biology. Then at age 6, as you entered school you may have discovered that if you have your own thoughts, you are wrong and therefore the teacher doesn’t love you. Again, you stored this emotion in another part of your biology or cells. Then again around age 13, you may have learned that kissing is for “bad” girls and consequently stored that away.
Imagine you are now on your first date. You are with the “love of your life” at the moment and you think: to be loved I need to do 3 things. First, I must be careful since love is not unconditional. Second, I cannot have my own opinions so I better agree to all he/she says. And third, do not kiss or I will be banished to my room forever. The way you think of yourself and what “love” is all about had already been defined by the time you got to experience that first date. You may be laughing, but this is why there are layers upon layers to sift through when finding out who you really are underneath it all. This also explains why people go through relationship after relationship with the same result: the core of the issue are never addressed.
You can talk about these concepts until you are blue in the face and you will never find your core. The reason for this is because traditional psychotherapy (I have been a licensed counselor) does not delve into your energetic self where many of these core beliefs live. You must approach them in terms of your energetic self as well. Traditional counseling definitely has its’ place, but energy work is for those who truly want to change.
If you want to know more and how to get to the core of that onion faster, contact me at firstname.lastname@example.org. Free consolations available.
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Copyright material Vallee Rose 2016