Ever really wonder what the term “Like attracts Like” or “Misery Loves Company” truly means? We know that when we are upbeat and happy, a grouchy and angry person is not someone we want to be around. But when we are angry and grouchy, only other miserable people come and commiserate with us. And, when we are happy and joyous, other happy and joyous people seem to appear. Most of us take this for granted. But these terms have a much deeper significance.
Let’s take and example. Have you ever had one of those days that it seems that everything goes wrong? First, the kids used all the hot water before you got to the shower. Second, your toaster was set higher than you thought and your toast burned. Third, you managed to hit every red light on the way to work and ended up late. And I bet every time that something like that happened, you said some nasty things under your breath and finally by the third event, you are saying, “What else could go wrong today?” Well your words and thoughts determine your day. By putting it out to the Universe, “What else could go wrong today?” you are literally asking the Universe to give you more of the same. The Universe is doing exactly what you asked it to do: showing you what else could go wrong!
But what if you said when the hot shower was cold, “Bless my kids for they are all clean today for school”? I am thankful and grateful for that. And bless this toaster for actually toasting the toast where it is set. Lastly, bless these red lights reminding me to stop and breath. I am so thankful and grateful for that reminder. Well instead of walking into work all upset and cursing under your breath, you walk in smiling and joyous and if anyone asks, you tell them the Universe was reminding you to slow down and breath.
OK, I hear some of you saying: but you don’t know my boss! I don’t have to, I know you. You just gave me your first excuse: BUT. You are not responsible for your boss’s actions; you are responsible for yours. An angry boss will have a more difficult time staying angry if he has to scold a truly joyous person. Bless him as you walk away as well.
If simple changes in your thoughts and actions can change your day, imagine what different thoughts and actions regarding love and money could do for you. For more information, purchase a chat session through my Etsy shop (web site coming soon): Here or email me at firstname.lastname@example.org for a free phone consultation.